Why Do Men Pull Away?

Why Do Men Pull Away?
By Payo W Perry

There is one thing about men which confuses women perhaps more than anything else, why do men who are in secure and happy pre-marriage relationships suddenly pull away and become distant? Understandably women find this aspect of men to be unnerving and at times even insulting as it seems to fly in the face of everything they are doing on a daily basis in order to make him happy. The most important thing for women to realise is that pulling away in a relationship is inevitable for men; it is as natural as the sea coming in and out with the tides.

For some reason many need to pull away from time to time in order to feel that they are in love with their partner. By pulling away men are given the opportunity to miss their partner and to feel that they genuinely need them in order to be happy in life. Women who understand this natural process in men will give them the space they need, confident in the fact that when a man has fully extended away from her he will once again find his passion for the relationship and return with an enormous amount of energy to make it work once more. In short, he will have been reminded of his feelings for her.

If a man pulls away from you in the relationship and you chase after him or worse, punish him for doing something which he cannot help, you will only serve to prevent him from rediscovering his feelings of love for you. He will feel controlled and manipulated by you which in turn will prevent him from ever thinking about committing to you in a serious and long term relationship. This is because you will have prevented him from doing something which all men need to do in order to be happy in relationships.

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